Chances are your child is aware you are rooting through his or her hair searching for signs of headlice, but if they are particularly sensitive, they may be upset to the results. Some children are frightened of bugs and others prefer to keep their hands and body as clean as possible. If this sounds like your child and you are dreading the moment you actually break the news of the lice inhabitants, there are a few ways to make it easier on both of you.
First, do not act as if you are angry about the headlice infestation. Even if you are feeling frustrated and frightened for your child, do your best to act as if the situation is completely under control. It can be stressful knowing you have to launder everything in the house, apply headlice treatment to your child, and watch for signs of recurrence. You will also need to let your child’s school know about the condition and you will need to keep an eye on other children and adults who live in your home. All of this will try your patience, but make sure your child realizes you have the situation under control and they will be fine. She may feel guilty or as if she has done something wrong by catching headlice, so let her know it is not her fault and you are not angry.
Next, explain to her that headlice cannot hurt her and they do not bite. She should understand the lice will do her no harm other than making her itchy. If she has questions, answer them patiently and help her feel more secure about the situation. It is important she not feel as if she is going to get sick or hurt due to her current condition.
Finally, include your child in the process. Read the instructions for the headlice shampoo together and let her wash her own hair. If you are using a natural treatment, she will be safe washing her hair as if it were regular shampoo. Explain each step of treatment and take time to learn about lice together. If she feels like she has some control over the situation, it will put her mind at ease and help her cope with lice living in her hair.
